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Flying Monkey Tactics

Flying Monkey Tactics are actions and strategies used by agents of narcissists to cause harm to the recipient of the abuse.
What are Flying Monkey Tactics?
They are the means by which third party allies of the narcissist enable and participate in the abuse of the victim-survivor.

Some common examples of these tactics are:

Scapegoating
Slander
Victim-blaming
Spying
Gaslighting
Intimidation
DARVO
Stalking
Backstabbing

The common denominator of the actions of a narcissist’s enabler is to betray and harm the victim-survivor.
How to beat flying monkeys
In conclusion for the victim-survivor to learn how to beat flying monkeys and develop a workable strategy to exit the scapegoat role, it is necessary to acquire an understanding on how the narcissist’s agents operate.

The Narcissist’s Flying Monkeys

FLYING MONKEYS ARE ENABLERS who act on behalf of narcissists. They are usually friends and relatives who serve as surrogates, emissaries, fixers and drones in the narcissist’s network. Moreover, they make it possible for narcissists to carry out their campaigns of abuse by proxy. A person may rationalize playing the flying monkey role for a variety of reasons. Here are…